Narcissism Explained: Healing Emotional Disconnection With Darren Elliott

In this episode of 'Treatable', hosted by Clint Mally, guest expert Darren Elliott, a coach, educator, speaker, and psychotherapist, delves into the intricacies of narcissism. They explore the formation, relational impacts, and healing of narcissistic personality disorder (NPD). Darren highlights how narcissism stems from early childhood traumas and disconnection, manifesting as a lack of empathy and emotional regulation. The conversation also covers the concept of healthy narcissism versus malignant narcissism, the importance of emotional growth, and the pivotal role of meaningful relationships in recovery. Narcissism is framed as a treatable condition through self-compassion, trust-building, and professional support.

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00:00 Introduction to Narcissism

01:07 Understanding Narcissism with Darren Elliott

01:47 The Emotional Disconnect in Narcissism

03:08 Impact of Avoiding Negative Emotions

07:58 Historical Context and PTSD

14:57 Childhood Trauma and Narcissism

19:43 Coping Mechanisms and Narcissism

26:37 Understanding Childhood Narcissism

27:13 Healthy vs. Malignant Narcissism

27:40 Narcissism in the Workplace

28:13 Object Constancy and Emotional Maturity

29:20 Dialectical Thinking and Cognitive Distortions

30:24 Double Down Theory and Avoiding Shame

32:10 Recognizing Narcissistic Traits

35:12 Supporting a Narcissist

40:49 The Importance of Relationships

44:32 Personal Journey and Insights

52:12 Final Thoughts and Resources